Sunday, October 7, 2007

Vulgarities

Note: If you have anything against the work F*CK or any crude or impolite words you might not want to read this post.

Okie.... By giving to note on top I do not imply that I am gonna be swearing or cursing anyone that I know or you know of... I am just gonna write my thoughts on something that we personally know and are very familiar about.

VULGARITIES!!!!!!

Bwhahahahaha... alright let's look at the word that we are VERY familiar about.

The work fuck. Oh I know what you're thinking. But for those who don't what this means lemme give a simple definition from dictionary.com

Fuck
1.to have sexual intercourse with.
2.Slang. to treat unfairly or harshly.
–verb (used without object)
3.to have sexual intercourse.
4.Slang. to meddle (usually fol. by around or with).
–interjection
5.Slang. (used to express anger, disgust, peremptory rejection, etc., often fol. by a pronoun, as you or it.)
–noun
6.an act of sexual intercourse.
7.a partner in sexual intercourse.
8.Slang. a person, esp. one who is annoying or contemptible.
9.the fuck, Slang. (used as an intensifier, esp. with WH-questions, to express annoyance, impatience, etc.)
10.fuck around, Slang.
a.to behave in a frivolous or meddlesome way.
b.to engage in promiscuous sex.
11.fuck off, Slang.
a.to shirk one's duty; malinger.
b.go away: used as an exclamation of impatience.
c.to waste time.
12.fuck up, Slang.
a.to bungle or botch; ruin.
b.to act stupidly or carelessly; cause trouble; mess up.
13.give a fuck, Slang. to care; be concerned.

As you can see... out of 13 definitions, 10 of them are slangs. Slangs are an informal usage of a word. For this case the word fuck. The word "fuck" only means to have sexual intercourse with a partner or whatsoever. By some reason we hear this word being used in all sorts of forms possible!

This vid is 18+(it's not porn don't worry, rated for crude language)


Using Proper English - Awesome video clips here

ah yes.... such "beautiful" usage of the word "fuck". When the meaning of the word only has sexual inclinations.

What I wanna show here is this. The word "fuck" is not vulgar. It is only that way because we made it that way. It could actually be any word that could take the place of the word "fuck". It could just be the word that you actually subsititute the word "fuck" with( frig you , screw you, sugar you <-- I have a friend that uses this).

With this I am NOT encouraging you to say "fuck" like nobody's business. NO! alright? Don't go around say "fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck" and then when your papa mama ask you why like this say the kor kor from this site tell me the word "fuck" not a bad word. IT IS A BAD WORD but only when used INCORRECTLY(Okie fine this could only just be my opinion). It is wrong when you express it meaninglessly.

I wanna include that when people say "fuck you" to you. Be polite and say" I know I am very attractive that you wanna have sexual relations with me but I am sorry I am not interested". Even more lagi best is when a person of the same gender say that to you "I am not a homosexual". In other words, there're just making themselves look dumb, no need to feel offended at all. You don't even need to fight back, they just commited suicide.

But there is nothing wrong when when you had sex with your spouse(or whatever it is but I don't wanna know) and you say "I fucked her/him last night". Of course I don't see how you can get a chance say that but I can imagine a few unlikely situations. Sure you can get away with sentences like "i had sexual intercourse with her" or "I had sex with her" but the word fuck is one word.(And I don't see this word being justified and a taboo just because it is not used correctly). I just wanna say this not a bad word. It's just a misunderstood word.

Oh but I am not done yet. You remember I mentioned people substitute the word "fuck" with other words (yes yes I mentioned the word "sugar" in it). Now I don't see why people don't get offended when people do that because they're using it THE SAME WAY as they used the word "fuck". When people sae "*insert word here* you" the same way as "fuck you". IT IS EQUAL TO THE PERSON SAYING "FUCK YOU". Same goes for the other usages like "fucking rich" or "what the fuck". because what other word being added in there is not gonna make the word any logical or nicer other than the actual words. So yes, substituition of words doesn't help at all, It still means, "you need much improvement"

Now I wanna give a BIIIIIG mystery here. Now. I am pretty sure some of you readers actually kena the "go to hell" line before. Now, why oh why oh why is a lot of people more offended at the "fuck you" when it makes no sense when the "go to hell" line makes more sense because hell exists!?!?!?!

Not a big deal? Okie picture this, the most painful place with lots and lots of suffering multiply by infite. You stay in that place forever. Get the idea?. When "fuck you" is just "I wanna have sex with you" which really isn't much of a big threat if you know what I mean.

So yes with this I do hope to clear the word" fuck" (or any misunderstood word) of any charges of "vulgarity" I rest my case.

I have a feeling the I am sooooo gonna be in deep trouble for this post. I think I am gonna regret it lol. oh well >.<

Mo0n^Ey3s signing off

Thursday, October 4, 2007

The Misunderstandings I cause

I am such a horrible blogger... why? cause I do not give the loving this blog needs for approx two months!!!(And how I show my loving? writing rubbish on the blog =) )

You may not know it but everything around me makes me think of you. Heck even my main line of work and entertainment is pretty much what you do too. I worry and rejoice at the same time. Such a confusing mixture of feelings that I go through through my time with you.

Nothing has really changed though. Still I yearn for your eyes to be plastered upon me. still i yearn for your mind to always have a room for me. Still I yearn for the touch of your hand against mine. Still I yearn for the embrace that we can never get tired of. And still, last but not the least, I hunger for the kiss that we always share while no ones looking.

But yet again lots change storm around us. With us in the center of everything, but yet we too make everything our center.

Sometimes I wonder what do women think when I try to speak to them. By this I definitely do not refer to my physical appearance (I pretty much can guess it actually *jiggles my fats*). I refer what kind of a person do you think I am. Am I a flirt? Am I a rude person etc etc... Many of my friends went clean and told me that I look like some kind of casanova (an UNSUCCESSFUL casanova i should add). Some said that I look like the sort that can score As for every single test). Some even say that I am probably one of the holiest saints they could ever meet (Which just so isn't true >.<). Through it all it started to make me worry a lot(especially about the casanova thing) whenever I try to speak with women be they young or old. When I just want to just talk to them. But no matter how careful I am... there will always be misunderstandings and confusions that I am unfortunately and inevitable the culprit of. I dun wanna say much on the details so if you're curious ya noe wad to do :P

Sinfonia is coming again!!!! (for those who don't know it's just this NYP Symphony Orchestra concert) it's just one month to go.... (and somehow I feel that I have just made one of my biggest mistakes) hope my section can get it together even though there will be many changes. This will be my last performance >.< hope I don't screw it up....

ps: To my one and only, If you're reading this I just wanna tell you how how how how how grateful I am for bringing such joy into my life. There is much I wanna say but I dun wanna make this blog to mushy wushy so I'll just tell u in person :P

MoOn^Ey3s signing off